Wednesday, February 9, 2011

The Encouraging Wife

Continuing on our series on love for Valentines Day, I wanted to write a post entitled The Encouraging Wife as we refer to the relationship between husband and wife. Sometime last week, I caught part of a conversation that was being aired on Moody's Midday Connection program with Anita Lustrea. I heard the guest challenging wives to say one positive thing about their husbands for a number of days and watch God change their marriages for the better. This was something the guest had done in her own marriage that was falling apart and she saw God miraculously changed it and caused her to fall in love with her husband once again. I thought this was a very positive and inspiring thing to do. I was also reminded in scripture where it says the words we speak are powerful to either make or break people or situations. God says in the book of Proverbs 18:21 (New American Standard Bible)
21Death and life are in the power of the tongue...

Another relevant verse is: Proverbs 12:18 (New American Standard Bible)
18There is one who speaks rashly like the thrusts of a sword,
But the tongue of the wise brings healing.

This challenge produced testimonies that confirmed God's word. Some of these women had marriages that were in trouble but their marriages got back on track because they took this challenge to heart.


In order to encourage and support this revolutionary practice, I would like to direct your attention to Revive Our Hearts the ministry of a skilled and godly Bible teacher Nancy Leigh DeMoss who also had a program about this challenge. 30 Days of Encouraging Your Husband – is intended to motivate wives to be positive supporters of their husbands. Here is a link to the web page about this important challenge.
http://www.reviveourhearts.com/challenge/husband-encouragement/
Another useful resource for women who desire to live according to God’s pattern is Proverbs 31 Ministries. Here is a link to their website: http://www.proverbs31.org/about/aboutP31.php


I would also like you to be aware that my online store The Upper Room Store has many relevant books for wives. Below is a list of some appropriate titles:

As Unto the Lord: A Tool for Wives Who Want to Glorify God
http://theupperroomstore.deepershopping.com/index.php?module=viewitem&item=76424
Marriage Mentor Training Manual for Wives
http://theupperroomstore.deepershopping.com/index.php?module=viewitem&item=55152

One-Minute Prayers for Wives
http://theupperroomstore.deepershopping.com/index.php?module=viewitem&item=53155
The Joy of a Promise Kept: The Powerful Role Wives Play
http://theupperroomstore.deepershopping.com/index.php?module=viewitem&item=117877

The Words of The Wives
http://theupperroomstore.deepershopping.com/index.php?module=viewitem&item=3974622

Power of A Praying Wife
http://theupperroomstore.deepershopping.com/index.php?module=viewitem&item=32807


Just as a reminder, if you are looking for something specific, just click on the red Advance Search button on the left of my web page and type what you are looking for on the Title or Author line.



Have a great Valentine's Day!!

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